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Feb. 18th, 2010 @ 08:17 pm POP QUIZ
1. If you're on my friends list, I want to know 35 things about you. I don't care if we never talk, or if we already know everything about each other. Short and sweet is fine.

2. Comment here with your answers and repost the questionnaire on your own journal (if you want)...

01) Are you currently in a serious relationship?
02) What was your dream growing up?
03) What talent do you wish you had?
04) If I bought you a drink what would it be?
05) Favorite vegetable?
06) What was the last book you read?
07) What zodiac sign are you?
08) Any Tattoos and/or Piercings? Explain where.
09) Worst Habit?
10) If you saw me walking down the street would you offer me a ride?
11) What is your favorite sport?
12) Do you have a Pessimistic or Optimistic attitude?
13) What would you do if you were stuck in an elevator with me?
14) Worst thing to ever happen to you?
15) Tell me one weird fact about you.
16) Do you have any pets?
17) What if I showed up at your house unexpectedly?
18) What was your first impression of me?
19) Do you think clowns are cute or scary?
20) If you could change one thing about how you look, what would it be?
21) Would you be my crime partner or my conscience?
22) What color eyes do you have?
23) Ever been arrested?
24) Bottle or can soda?
25) If you won $10,000 today, what would you do with it?
26) What's your favorite place to hang out at?
27) Do you believe in ghosts?
28) Favorite thing to do in your spare time?
29) Do you swear a lot?
30) Biggest pet peeve?
31) In one word, how would you describe yourself?
32) Do you believe/appreciate romance?
33) Favorite and least favorite food?
34) Do you believe in God?
35) Will you repost this so I can fill it out and do the same for you?
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Apr. 27th, 2009 @ 09:32 pm One shot, that's all you get

The One Question Meme

1 question.
1 chance.
1 honest answer.
That's all you get.

You get to ask me 1 question. Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty, or wrong it is.

One catch, that should go without saying: no mentioning the questions or answers to others.

But I dare you to repost this. And see what people ask you!

Questions and answers are screened.
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Mar. 23rd, 2009 @ 07:00 pm mammograms
I had my first mammogram today. it's not nealy as bad as people say... not fun either but not painful.
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Sep. 17th, 2008 @ 10:06 pm owie
yeah soo I've pretty much had a headace for over a week.. sure, advil fixes it breifly but then whammie ... it's back again. Me no likely. I am sure it's stress.Me no likey that either.
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Aug. 23rd, 2008 @ 03:41 pm Writer's Block: Your Favorite Series: One Last Go Round
If you could pick any TV show that has been off the air to come back for one more season, which show would you pick and why?
 I would pick Strong Medicine or MASH.
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Aug. 22nd, 2008 @ 09:42 pm Who says Politics can't be pretty?

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Aug. 17th, 2008 @ 07:38 pm Yummo

We found GOOD Indian food in Memphis. .. of coursw within walking distance of the house we DIDN'T buy but still not too far away. 
That and Cheerios w/ soy milk  for dinner has made for a yummy food day.

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Aug. 16th, 2008 @ 11:30 am strugglin'

So a dear friend has done something that breaks trust not only with me but with many people within our core group of friends. It doesn't really matter what and even if it did I would likely not post it HERE but suffice it to say that I have lost a lot of trust and respect for someone I care about. And as an added bonus it's the type of situation that could (and very likely may) divide a group of people.

I find myself struggling with the whole thing but particularly how to not let one person's actions damage my  relationships with those people we both care about. At this point in time I have almost no desire to conitnue a friendship with The Person Who Shall Remain Nameless (TPWSRN). but realisticly that's not an option at least not completely. It's also realistic that I will be more amenable to the idea in the future but right now I can't fathom working at a friendship with someone I cannot trust and probably never even knew at all then you add in the the fact that TPWSRN has a history of playing lipservice to working through problems but not REALLY doing it. So Why should *I* bother... again? Well, because I care so much for and trust the rest of TPWSRN's family. Sure yes I get the each of my realtionships has great merit on it's own and in theory that I could cut TPWSRN out of my life and not loose the others but anyone that has ever known a couple where one person is someone you enjoy and the other is someone you don't you either end up tolerating the one to enjoy the other or you end up not seeing/talking to the one you like as much as you would otherwise want to. 

And then there is the part where I do belive that TPWSRN is not a bad human being but has more damage than the normal life battlescars that most of us have. That comes with some allowance that would not otherwise be there. (Assuming there is actual efforts to overcome the damage). 

 And then there is the part where friends have been hurt by TPWSRN's recent actions, ... err I should say recently gettng caught as the actions are longer standing it's just no one knew until someone was hurt. The longer standing (and lying about it)  is  for me is the bigger issue but for those that were hurt it's more isolated to "THE" incident. But anyway, I do worry a bit about the message that is sent to those friends by how I interact with TPWSRN in the future. Granted that's a smaller concern but it's sometihng I do consider. 

And to be fair, *I* have my own issues with being lied to. Everyone does but, for me, because of my sister's pathological lying problem I have a stronger reaction to it especially from those I feel i  "should" be able to trust.  And in this situation I am having a hard time accepting the idea that the dishonesty surrounds only one subject.. what's the likliehood of that? really?

. It would suck beyond believe to have a group of friends that I treasure divide but only time will tell. Having little "real" family left has always been mitigated for me by having such a close group of friends that I treasure. I don't want to start over especially knowing now that I can't trust my instincts on who is can be trusted.  ((can I get some cheese with THAT whine?)

I can't imagine the pain and frustration and anger that folks that are even closer to TPWSRN are going through. It's crappy enough from where I sit and I am thankful to not be closer to it. 

Well THAT was more rambly than I expected but it's good to get it out on "paper" .. typos and all. 

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Jun. 8th, 2008 @ 11:00 pm It's the beginning of the future
In my perhaps not so humble opinion this is one of the best political speaches ever. 

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Apr. 23rd, 2008 @ 08:13 am Eeep!
I am sitting on the front porch while the movers pack the HUGE trailer with our stuff and then my car. Denial gets harder and harder :)  
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